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Yeah, I know, why I should not become a psychologist.
When it comes to "such" stuff I'm always too honest and too harsh.... I simply have no patience anymore.
Anyways... it is your choice.
You can wallow in your misery or start to change it.
I know that it is sometimes easier just to lay still and enjoy the drama, sometimes one even needs it.
There were times when I got myself involved in others' dilemmas trying to help, but I learnt that it is always safer to stay aside, say something harsh, but fair (aha haha!) and in the end, people did it themselves.
Of course I will listen to you if you want to talk, but I do not want to interfere.
A quote from "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" to sum it up (I don't know how many times I used this one, already):
When it comes to "such" stuff I'm always too honest and too harsh.... I simply have no patience anymore.
Anyways... it is your choice.
You can wallow in your misery or start to change it.
I know that it is sometimes easier just to lay still and enjoy the drama, sometimes one even needs it.
There were times when I got myself involved in others' dilemmas trying to help, but I learnt that it is always safer to stay aside, say something harsh, but fair (aha haha!) and in the end, people did it themselves.
Of course I will listen to you if you want to talk, but I do not want to interfere.
A quote from "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" to sum it up (I don't know how many times I used this one, already):
"I would die for you, but I won't live for you."
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Date: 2010-04-23 05:26 am (UTC)From:Weißt du was, du hast mir mit diesem Eintrag für den heutigen Tag schon wieder Mut gegeben. Gestern war ich echt niedergeschlagen, nachdem was jemand "im Spaß" zu mir gesagt hat, aber du hast mich wieder einmal mit dem "You can wallow in your misery or start to change it." daran erinnert, dass ich mich nicht von irgendwelchen unsensiblen Idioten fertig machen lassen brauche.
Ich weiß, dass der Eintrag nicht für mich gedacht war, aber trotzdem danke! :D
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Date: 2010-04-23 11:34 am (UTC)From:hihi. Wie fandest du es?
Das "<3" lässt Gutes vermuten.
Oh, das find ich gut.
Ich neige ja selbst dazu, mich in meinem Elend zu wälzen und Dramadramadrama, da tut so ein Arschtritt manchmal ganz gut, egal von wem er kommt.