do it, or leave it.

Yeah, I know, why I should not become a psychologist.
When it comes to "such" stuff I'm always too honest and too harsh.... I simply have no patience anymore.

Anyways... it is your choice.
You can wallow in your misery or start to change it.
I know that it is sometimes easier just to lay still and enjoy the drama, sometimes one even needs it.

There were times when I got myself involved in others' dilemmas trying to help, but I learnt that it is always safer to stay aside, say something harsh, but fair (aha haha!) and in the end, people did it themselves.

Of course I will listen to you if you want to talk, but I do not want to interfere.

A quote from "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" to sum it up (I don't know how many times I used this one, already):

"I would die for you, but I won't live for you."